a blog with cultural bulimia.

Wednesday, June 30, 2004

Looking for Mr. Good Friend.

I want friends I can have a conversation with.
An honest conversation.

I know a guy in his late thirties who has never had a relationship in his entire life and blames the jadeness of NY gays for that. I know another guy who pats his head and agrees with him: NY gays ARE jaded.

The second guy does not have the guts to tell the first the real reason he has never had a relationship: he is a mess. (Of course, I am oversimplifying the reason, but that's not the point here.) NY gays might be jaded (not all) but they are also smart (not all). (This ain't the point either.)

They call each other friends. (This might be it.)

I want friends that can be told things